True friends know me better than I know myself, see things in me that even I don't see, and are not afraid to call me out when I do something wrong or hurtful. They are candid and honest with me because they know the truth is more important than a bruised ego or hurt feelings. So, if they are so honest with the hard words to say, why would I doubt when they share something positive with me?
Action 141 - Believe Them. Friends tell me that they appreciate what I write and that I inspire them to pursue their own goals. I need to believe them. Friends tell me that my own decision to live a healthier, more active life has motivated them to do the same. I need to believe them. And friends tell me that I am important to them and that they value our friendship. I need to believe them.
There is nothing gained from doubting those closest to me. I need to respect them and their friendship and just be happy that they respect and appreciate me, too. And I will.
Case in point, this text message I received this morning. What kind of knucklehead would I be if I didn't appreciate such a thoughtful gesture?
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